The battle between the head and the heart…who will win?

I have experienced many situations in my life, in the process of discovering myself and tempering my personality, although the situations are varied and of varying severity, they are enough to correct my distortions, calm my weaknesses, adjust my mood, and prepare my life. Anger, I have therefore strengthened my determination, strengthened my heart, my time, to end my journey, not to stop my journey, my steps will not slow down, my strength will not weaken, so I will not look back… During this period, as if difficulties were an imposition, I have traveled across the ends of the earth, tasted all the bitterness, fought against diseases, and faced many challenges calmly.

And it was no accident, as if the existing comfort had disappeared, and as if the wind and waves on the wings of the individual objected, so this was the most difficult to tame myself and the most difficult to stimulate my intuition, so the conflict between my voice and whispers continued, just as important as it seemed yesterday.

The progress of years does not destroy it, nor does the effect of experience benefit it, as if time would increase it, and there is no guarantee who will restore it, because the old is like the new, the collected is like the single, the near is like the far, the many is like the unique, the lost is like the good, its essence is like iron, we do not know if he wants us or we want it, although we consume it, we want its goodness, but feel insecure about its fairness, we go through it, but do not know what its benefits are, what its tragedy is? He is cruel to us as if our lives belonged to him, he attacks us as if our water is his ice, he controls us as if we are his pillars. Be his shadow, we walk along his borders, we wear his clothes, we eat his porridge, even our letters arrive at his mailbox, we do not know if he will hunt us down or catch him, will he make us like a group of his servants? Or will we remain in his hymns, and even the doubts in our thoughts disappear in his certainty?

How can we free ourselves from its power, embrace it without being hurt, accept its destiny, hope for its delay, accept its sweetness and bitterness, endure the pain and hurt, and be kind to it until it passes.

To do this, we must prepare useful means to deal with conflicts and arm ourselves with means suitable for conflicts, so we collect as much useful material as possible and make plans to meet challenges, while collecting alternatives, closing matters that have been closed, and seeking solutions to problems.

The most powerful weapons are beautiful qualities, generous deeds, good communication through many ways, great achievements, approaching beggars, taking responsibility for oneself even in private, being content with fate as it happens in any case, rebuilding the world globe as it is distributed to all factions, and curbing one’s desires as it is a sin and a blessing, every happiness, transgression is fleeting, so do not put obstacles between you and God, so you will be the first, and only a few will reach these positions, so keep your place among them, promote virtue, stay away from the path of sin, gather until you reach this point, in the opinion of optimists, only one person can reach the pious one, whoever has luck we have evidence for this, as the best saying says: “No one gets it except those who are patient; no one gets it except those who are lucky.”

In short: take the high road.

Dr.. Iman Hamad Hamad

@bentalnoor2005