Bullying (school) ..! – Medina Newspaper

The value of a place depends on what it has and what it presents, and school can only be expected to be what it is for, to acquire knowledge, perfect character, and promote the advancement of a person. Useful for himself, for his family, for his community. But any move away from school means that demolition occurs where construction occurs, and taboo occurs where safety occurs. Children go to school and believe that it is sending them to the place where they are (lifted) and fulfilling in them the (duality) of nurturing and education. However, in some cases, school can be a source (of pain) and cause (fractures) that last a lifetime, just like every schoolboy and girl who has experienced (brutal) experiences (bullying) within its walls.

That kind of bullying, with various sources and different means; in the end, he presents to society the “wreckage” of a man whose inner pain is far greater than he ever let on when he tries to “coexist” with reality, which insists on driving him to rock bottom despite all his efforts to get out of it.

The biggest impact and pain of (bullying) on ​​male and female students comes from teachers, because this is a unipolar bullying, and the student under this bullying is like standing under the teacher. There is no help here in the scorching sun without an umbrella, and he has no power to push or protect himself, because the source of bullying is stronger than all his abilities.

How many students go home with a name that has disappeared from the mouths of students, how many students go home with a description (that he hates) that is actually rare in his creation and form, so for him (calling), it hurts him every moment, and the root of all this is his teacher, who came to him to heal him, but made him sick.

Regarding bullying among students, it is undoubtedly a reality, and with the revolution of communication channels, the dominance of “bullying” and the desire for control on the part of some students, it has reached a “painful” advanced stage. Every male and female student who has been bullied by his peers will experience this situation: going to school becomes a nightmare, and leaving school becomes a safe haven (safety).

The biggest factor that causes bullying to become a psychological illness and a (chronic) complex is that the student lives in (fear of) complaining about the things he is exposed to (he is afraid of school, he is afraid of his family), so he has no choice but to (hide) his pain, and in some cases of bullying he may become a slave to orders, doing everything he is asked of him, which means that he ends up being a person who is respected by God, but rejected by his creation.

Every family, stay close to your children (tell them frankly) what you want them to face, listen to their complaints, notice with a (critical) eye every change that occurs in their behavior and actions, visit their school, discuss contact with their teachers, do not postpone treatment of any complaint they make, you are safe for them and be careful not to harm you and the surrounding community, because (school bullying) is a reality and the treatment is simple: (stay close to your children), with my knowledge and your safety. kmsag@hotmail.com

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